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Affiliate Disclosure

Last updated: May 13, 2026

withthem.com earns commissions on qualifying purchases made through links on the site. When you click a product link and buy something on the retailer's site, the retailer pays us a small share of the sale. The price you pay does not change.

The programs we participate in

We earn commissions through the following affiliate networks and direct programs:

  • Amazon Associates
  • Impact (including 1-800-Flowers, The Knot Shop, Personalization Mall, Harry & David, Crate & Barrel)
  • Awin (including Etsy during the program's current network)
  • CJ Affiliate
  • Rakuten Advertising (including Anthropologie/BHLDN, Mark and Graham, and the Williams-Sonoma family of brands)
  • Direct programs with Uncommon Goods

The list of programs we participate in changes over time as we add or remove partners. This page is the source of truth.

Editorial independence

Recommendations on withthem.com are independent of commission rates. We pick products because they fit the article's subject and the reader's need, not because a particular retailer pays more. Where two retailers carry comparable products, we may favor the one that pays a higher rate or sets a longer cookie window, because that supports the site at no cost to the reader. Where a higher-paying retailer carries a worse version of the product, we link to the better product at the lower rate. The integrity of the recommendation comes first.

If we ever write a sponsored post or accept payment from a retailer in exchange for coverage, we will label that post clearly and separately from regular editorial content. We do not currently run sponsored posts.

Amazon Associates

As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases.

How to support the site

If something we recommend looks useful, clicking through one of our links before you buy supports the site at no extra cost to you. We pay our hosting bills and research costs out of the commissions those clicks generate.

Questions

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